Bhai Dooj: Celebrating the Timeless Bond of Sibling Love
Shailja Jha
Patna: Every year, as the auspicious day of Bhai Dooj unfolds, sisters across Bihar engage in a heartwarming tradition, applying tilak on the foreheads of their brothers while crafting delectable dishes to share. In return, brothers express their love through thoughtful gifts and a promise to protect their sisters. Known by various names, including Bhaiya Dooj, Bhau Beej, Bhatra Dwitiya, Bhai Dwitiya, and Bhatri Dwitiya, this festival holds significant cultural importance for people hailing from diverse regions.
Bhai Dooj, a revered Hindu festival, occupies a crucial place in the religious calendar. It falls annually on the second day of Shukla Paksha in the Kartik month, typically occurring two days after the festival of lights, Diwali. This celebration symbolizes the enduring bond and love shared between siblings, with sisters offering prayers for the long life and good health of their brothers.
Central to the festivities are certain rituals that contribute to the sanctity of the occasion. The application of tilak, a sacred mark, is a highlight, but it comes with specific guidelines to ensure its auspiciousness. While applying tilak, it is recommended that the brother faces the north or northwest direction, and the sister faces the northeast or east direction. The brother should be seated on a wooden stool during the ritual, and the tilak should not be applied while standing.
Following the tilak, it is customary to tie a Mauli thread on the brother’s wrist and perform Aarti. Observing these rituals at the auspicious time during Bhai Dooj is considered highly significant. Sisters are advised not to accept any gifts until after applying tilak on their brother’s forehead.
Traditional dietary practices also play a role in the celebration. Satvik food is encouraged, while the consumption of non-vegetarian fare is discouraged. Importantly, siblings are urged to maintain harmony and avoid conflicts on this auspicious day, recognizing it as a time to strengthen their bond.
Bhai Dooj, with its roots deeply embedded in Indian culture, stands as a testament to the enduring love and affection between brothers and sisters. The festival’s name itself, with “Bhai” signifying brother and “Dooj” indicating the second day after the new moon, underlines the strength and endurance of this special bond.
