Patna: Makar Sankranti is a festival that brings sweetness, warmth, and joy to homes across Bihar. The smell of sesame seeds, jaggery, and rice fills the air, but beyond these treats lies a tradition far older and more meaningful. In many villages, elders prepare a small bowl of sesame seeds, jaggery, and rice. Then, they place it in the palms of children and ask the same question three times: “Hamar Tilkat Bahabahi Na?” The children respond with a cheerful “Yes, yes, yes.” This is not just an answer, but a promise—a promise of care, love, and responsibility that lasts a lifetime.
This small ritual is deeply rooted in the bonds between generations. The tilak placed on a child’s palm is more than a blessing; it is a symbol of hope and trust. It teaches children that relationships are not temporary but meant to be cherished and nurtured. The elders, through this simple act, pass on an understanding that care is a two-way street: just as they support the young today, the young will support them in the future. It is a lesson in responsibility, loyalty, and love, learned naturally, without any lectures or instructions.
The words “Hamar Tilkat Bahabahi Na” carry a meaning far beyond the festival. In rural life, this ritual acts as a social contract, connecting the present with the future. It reminds children that family relationships are sacred, built on trust, respect, and care. For the elders, it provides reassurance that the next generation will continue to honor and support them. It is a tradition that strengthens the very foundation of rural society, making it more compassionate and connected.
In today’s world, where families are becoming smaller and lives busier, such traditions are slowly fading in cities. Makar Sankranti in towns and urban areas is often limited to flying kites, eating sweets, and posting celebrations online. But in villages, the old ways are still alive. The eyes of elders hold trust, and the palms of children carry responsibility. “Hamar Tilkat Bahabahi Na” is more than a festival custom; it is a bridge across generations, a promise that love, care, and respect will never be forgotten.
